You know. Every other woman’s profile on OkCupid seems to say something along the lines of, “And if you think messaging me with an overt sexual proposition is a good idea, it’s not.”
I’ve whined about OkC a lot - but my issues are mostly with boring people (which is not limited to any gender) and with dating scenes overall.
But this is a thing people do. With their faces visible. They go, “Oh shit, she’s purty, I’m’a ask her for sex.” To the point where any sensible woman tends to assume the worst of guys that bother to just say hello.